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Owner Communication & Relationship Management

Document Type: Best Practices
Version: 1.0
Last Updated: February 2026
Distribute To: Project Managers, Executives


Purpose

Establish best practices for managing owner relationships and communication throughout project lifecycle.


Why Owner Relationships Matter

Benefits of Strong Relationships:

  • Repeat business
  • Referrals
  • Easier issue resolution
  • Change order approval
  • Payment cooperation
  • Positive references

Relationship Risks:

  • Disputes become adversarial
  • Claims escalate
  • Payment delays
  • Negative reputation
  • No repeat work

Communication Framework

Formal Communication:

TypePurposeFrequency
Progress meetingsStatus updatesWeekly
Schedule updatesTimeline trackingWeekly/Monthly
Pay applicationsPayment requestsMonthly
RFIsDesign clarificationAs needed
SubmittalsMaterial/equipment approvalAs needed
Change ordersScope/cost changesAs needed
Monthly reportsComprehensive updateMonthly

Informal Communication:

  • Phone calls
  • Emails
  • Site visits
  • Relationship building

Progress Meetings

Meeting Agenda:

  1. Safety (5 min)

    • Incidents/near misses
    • Upcoming hazards
  2. Schedule (15 min)

    • Progress vs. plan
    • Look-ahead
    • Issues affecting schedule
  3. Budget/Cost (10 min)

    • Change order status
    • Cost concerns
    • Billing status
  4. Quality (5 min)

    • Inspection results
    • Issues identified
  5. Coordination (10 min)

    • RFI/Submittal status
    • Design issues
    • Owner decisions needed
  6. Issues/Risks (10 min)

    • Current issues
    • Potential risks
    • Mitigation actions
  7. Action Items (5 min)

    • Review open items
    • Assign new items

Meeting Minutes:

  • Distribute within 24 hours
  • Include action items
  • Note decisions made
  • Track open items

Monthly Reporting

Monthly Report Contents:

Executive Summary:

  • Overall status
  • Key achievements
  • Issues/concerns
  • Outlook

Schedule Status:

  • Milestone tracking
  • Critical path status
  • Schedule variance
  • Recovery plans (if behind)

Financial Status:

  • Budget vs. actual
  • Change order summary
  • Pay app status
  • Forecast

Quality/Safety:

  • Inspection results
  • Safety metrics
  • Incidents (if any)

Photos:

  • Progress photos
  • Key milestones
  • Before/after

Issues Log:

  • Open issues
  • Decisions needed
  • Risks

Difficult Conversations

When Issues Arise:

Prepare:

  • Know the facts
  • Understand owner perspective
  • Have solutions ready
  • Anticipate questions

Deliver:

  • Be direct and honest
  • Don't hide bad news
  • Present solutions, not just problems
  • Own your mistakes

Follow Up:

  • Document conversation
  • Confirm agreements
  • Track commitments
  • Update regularly

Common Difficult Topics:

  • Schedule delays
  • Cost overruns
  • Quality issues
  • Claims
  • Change order disputes

Change Order Communication

Best Practices:

Early Notice:

  • Notify of potential change immediately
  • Don't wait until you have pricing
  • Manage expectations

Clear Documentation:

  • Describe change clearly
  • Show cause
  • Reference contract
  • Detail pricing

Prompt Follow-Up:

  • Track pending changes
  • Follow up regularly
  • Escalate if needed
  • Document all communication

Managing Expectations

Set Expectations Early:

  • Communication protocols
  • Decision timelines needed
  • Schedule dependencies
  • Quality standards
  • Budget limitations

Throughout Project:

  • Regular updates
  • No surprises
  • Honest about challenges
  • Celebrate successes

Expectation Mismatches:

  • Address immediately
  • Clarify misunderstandings
  • Document agreements
  • Adjust as needed

Owner Decision Tracking

Decisions Needed Log:

IDDescriptionNeeded ByRequestedStatus

Escalation Process:

  • Document decision needed
  • Provide options if possible
  • State deadline and impact
  • Follow up appropriately
  • Escalate if unresponsive

Relationship Building

Beyond the Project:

During Project:

  • Site visits/tours
  • Milestone celebrations
  • Regular face time
  • Personal interest

After Project:

  • Warranty service
  • Periodic check-ins
  • Holiday greetings
  • Industry events

Building Trust:

  • Do what you say
  • Be honest
  • Solve problems
  • Add value
  • Be responsive

Handling Complaints

When Owner Complains:

  1. Listen

    • Don't be defensive
    • Understand the issue
    • Show you care
  2. Acknowledge

    • Validate concern
    • Take responsibility if appropriate
    • Apologize if warranted
  3. Investigate

    • Get the facts
    • Understand root cause
    • Involve right people
  4. Respond

    • Address the issue
    • Explain what happened
    • Describe resolution
  5. Follow Up

    • Confirm satisfaction
    • Prevent recurrence
    • Strengthen relationship

Documentation

Document Everything:

  • Meeting notes
  • Phone call summaries
  • Decisions made
  • Directions received
  • Issues raised

Why Documentation Matters:

  • Protects rights
  • Supports claims
  • Prevents disputes
  • Provides history

  • Change Order Management
  • Monthly Reporting
  • Claims Procedures
  • Proposal Management

Software Integration

BLDR Pro:

  • Meeting documentation
  • Photo sharing
  • Progress tracking
  • Communication log

CRM.Construction:

  • Relationship tracking
  • Client history
  • Follow-up reminders

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